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Edie Medley illustrates the conversations she overhears while working in a pub

“Honestly, when you’re pulling pints or collecting glasses and people are sitting there chatting, it’s difficult not to tune in.”

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Date
9 September 2025

It’s a situation many will know well. You’re at your local pub with your pals and you’re a few pints in – your tongue is getting looser, and the conversation sillier. The cocoon of alcohol, chairs pulled in close proximity and low lighting can make it feel like you’re in your own little world. But, as it turns out, your chats might not be as private as you think…

Edie Medley is an illustrator who, alongside freelance illustration projects, works part time as a manager at a pub, and she’s been drawing up the conversations she hears while on the job. “Being behind the bar is the perfect place to quietly observe, there are so many different interactions happening around you; friends who haven’t seen each other in a while, groups who meet at the same time every day, first dates, etc,” she says. “Honestly, when you’re pulling pints or collecting glasses and people are sitting there chatting, it’s difficult not to tune in.”

It was one particular conversation that first sparked the idea for I’m Not Listening. When in a pub garden, Edie overheard an argument which culminated in someone throwing their drink over a man, to which he indignantly (and hilariously) replied “well this is Gore-Tex, so the joke’s on you sweetheart. It’s waterproof!”. From that point onward, Edie kept her ear out for one-liners, swiftly noting them down in her trusty phone notes app, titled ‘overheard compiled’. “I had to organise it recently because they were all over the place, mixed up with my to-do lists and recipes,” she says.

An illustration of two people arguing against a bright yellow background. One person throws a dark liquid at the other, who wears a black sweater with the text “Well this is Goretex so the jokes on you sweetheart. Its waterproof.”
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Edie Medley: I’m Not Listening – Gore-Tex (Copyright © Edie Medley, 2025)

Having worked in a fair few pubs over the years, Edie’s built up a healthy bank of faces and characters that crop up in her drawings, and there’s something about Edie’s specific way of capturing people that makes each conversation so characterful. With her facial formula of stuck on noses and conjoined eyes she manages to create a range of expressions, from shock and smugness to enrapture and warmth, and the humanity of her characters is accentuated by the little details she incorporates from people’s fashion – a spotted top, a skirt over trousers, a curly mass of hair pulled back into a bobble, a tattoo on someone’s upper arm. When finally paired with the snippets of chat about astrology, Chat GPT, ‘chicken wine’ and phone usage, the pieces become a relatable and highly specific time capsule of social life in 2025.

As the saying goes, ‘life is a tapestry’, and the array of conversations Edie overhears range from the silly and mundane to the significant, and maybe even life-shattering. Many Edie recognises in the same lighthearted natters she has with her friends. One of her favourites stars a figure saying ‘I was being a bit of a bitch’, to which her friend replies ‘It is a full moon tonight in all fairness’. But one piece recalls an overheard conversation in which one party was “clearly considering breaking up with his long-term girlfriend”, who, to Edie’s dismay then turned up. “He was kissing her hello, and I was thinking, she has no clue what’s going on… I definitely shouldn’t have heard that one.”

An illustration of two people sitting at a table, facing each other. A speech bubble above them reads, “No because the reason there are hardly any hot people on the bus is because they all cycle”.
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Edie Medley: I’m Not Listening – Hot Take (Copyright © Edie Medley, 2025)

While it may not be the main intention of the project, there’s also something reassuring about Edie’s project – it’s honest about the fact that many creatives (especially early on in their career) have to fund their work with jobs in other industries. The project also proves that, in fact, ‘non-creative’ work might not always be a drain on your vision. “I’ve been working in hospitality on and off for years to support my illustration work,” says Edie. “I’ve not always enjoyed it, but I’ve always made work about it – it feels satisfying to come away from a long shift and turn it into something creative.”

The project has flipped Edie’s mindset, and also helped her recognise just how important pubs are – as are the people who work in them. “By seeing the customers as inspiration, it made a shift at the pub feel like research for a project; I’m cycling in thinking ‘I wonder what I will hear today!’ instead of thinking ‘I’ve got to go and clean the cellar and maybe deal with some difficult customers’,” she ends. “I’ve made countless comics on what I don’t enjoy about working in hospitality, but I’ve loved working on this project because it celebrates the pub as a space for conversation and community. We need the pub!” Who knows? Your next inane and slightly inebriated conversation might soon be on Edie’s notes app…

GalleryEdie Medley: I’m Not Listening (Copyright © Edie Medley, 2025)

An illustration of two people talking at a table against a bright yellow background. Speech bubbles read “I actually had such a good conversation with Chat GPT yesterday”, “What! But you were a skeptic!” and “I know!”.
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Chat GPT

An illustration of two people sitting together against a bright orange background. One person holds a folding fan and says, “GOD IT’S REALLY HOT IN HERE. I’M SO GLAD I’M NOT WORKING RIGHT NOW.” The other person looks down and replies, “YEAH”.
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Heat Wave

A black and white illustration of two people sitting at a table with drinks. One person holds a phone and says, “She hasn’t replied yet and I know she’s on her phone.” The other asks, “How do you know?” to which they reply, “Because she is, we all are.”
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We all are

An illustration of two people sitting at a table eating pizza against a bright yellow background. Speech bubbles above them read “I was being a bit of a bitch” and “It is a full moon tonight in all fairness”.
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Full Moon

An illustration of two people talking over drinks against a bright orange background. A speech bubble above them reads “I saw this guy on TikTok drawing things they’ve overheard working here”.
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Overheard

An illustration of two people sitting together against a mauve background. A speech bubble above them reads, “WELL I WAS KINDA HOPING HE’D MAKE ME BREAKFAAAST, MAYBE A SMOOOTHIE”.
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Smooothie

An illustration of a crowded bar scene with people chatting and drinking. Speech bubbles above their heads contain snippets of conversation, including “Baby Guinness?” and “No, tequila! Tequila!”.
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I’m Not Listening Part 1

An illustration of a crowded bar where several people lean against the counter, each with a speech bubble above their head. A bartender stands behind the bar, looking on with a neutral expression.
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I’m Not Listening Part 2

An illustration of a crowded bar under three yellow pendant lights. People lean against the counter, engaged in various conversations indicated by handwritten speech bubbles.
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I’m Not Listening Part 3

An illustration of a person with glasses and a moustache holding a glass of red wine. They are accompanied by text that reads “Is that the person you wanna be with for the rest of your life though?” and a response that says “I don’t think so”.
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Rest of your life

An illustration of a group of people sitting together in a social setting. Speech bubbles above them read “I can’t afford to do rounds man, sorry”, “I just paid rent and pay day isn’t for another two weeks” and “Nah i’ll get these all good buddy”.
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Rounds

A black and white illustration featuring a grid of 20 panels. In each panel, a person is shown climbing a flight of stairs while carrying different objects, such as a box or a phone.
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Edie Medley: Cellar (Copyright © Edie Medley, 2025)

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Edie Medley: I’m Not Listening (Copyright © Edie Medley, 2025)

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Olivia Hingley

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Olivia (she/her) is associate editor of the website, overseeing the day-to-day editorial projects as well as Nicer Tuesdays events. She joined the It’s Nice That team in 2021. ofh@itsnicethat.com

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